To cheat or not to cheat

Worst nightmare for couples: Your partner cheated on you!!!!

I hope this problem NEVER be my problem and yours too. Soale jujur aja, di sekeliling gue banyak yang mengalami hal itu. And even with people you know, dan for sure you know this person gak bakalan cheated but ternyata reality bites. Tidak berarti bila seorang suami / istri yang baik, dedicated to his/her spouse trus gak bakalan cheated. I know a person who comes down everynite to his wife, a good father to his kids, has a perfect life but still he is seeing another woman. Better watch out!!!

For me, cheating is a matter of choice. Even if you are married or comitted to someone, tetep aja we can be attracted to another people. After all, we've given two eyes to see and heart to feel BUT we also given a brain to think. Menurut gue, kita bisa aja tertarik dengan orang lain tapi whether kita mo meneruskan ketertarikan kita ke orang itu atau tidak, itu yang penting.

Gue bisa tolerate all kind of behavior aneh-aneh dari suami, cuman one thing gue gak bisa: If he ever cheated on me..that's it...Strike one and it's over. Gag bakalan gue menggunakan alasan, oh we should stay together for the sake of our child(ren). That's so BS deh.....obviously, if you cheat on your spouse you don't think about his/her feeling and your child(ren) too. Gue pernah kasih tau suami gue kalo basically I don't and won't tolerate if he ever cheated on me. Sorry deh kalo ngelanggar hal itu...kalo kata oom Donald, "You're fired!!!"

Pas pacaran long distance dulu untungnya gag ada tuh masalah cheating 2x an and kebetulan both of us bukan type yang cemburuan. Apalagi suami gue, aduh cueknya itu lho...even gue mo pergi ma cowo berdua aja juga gag bakalan kebakaran jenggot. And gue rasa dia juga berpikiran sama kek gue bahwa we're mature enough buat gag ngelakuin hal-hal yang aneh 2x, and kalo sampe ngelanggar yah too bad deh..no second chance given.

Satu lagi alasan klise buat cheating: kena black magic / guna-guna. It's so easy menggunakan alasan itu apalagi di Indonesia. It's not that I don't believe in such thing but apa semua perselingkuhan itu bisa di benarkan bila alasannya guna-guna?

Sekali lagi gue selalu berharap serta berdoa (dan percaya) bahwa gue and suami always honor what we've said in front of the altar bahwa kita akan selalu setia kepada pasangan, in sickness and in health, in good and in bad. Gue juga mendoakan hal yang sama berlaku bagi keluaga dan teman-teman gue...